BDSM Resources

Here are some of the links to the most popular BDSM resources on the web:

Arts:

• Marquis de Panasewicz - Fantasy artist in various domains, of both CGI format and the traditional.

Activities and Practices:

• Abrasion: Rubbing You the Right Way - History and suggestions relating to the "erotic stimulation of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking."
• Animal Training - Introduction to and overview of the terms, motivations and methods of this form of play.
• BDSM-Online - Articles addressing techniques, safety, disabilities, and reference material.
• Deviants' Dictionary: Cock Torture - The parts of the penis and how to be cruel to them. Includes articles on ball torture and BDSM first aid.
• Fire Play - Anonymous article covering first aid and safety issues, using magician's flash cotton, making alcohol torches, and some suggestion for ways to enjoy briefly applying fire to skin.
• Gay Male S/M Activists: Selected Articles - A number of articles covering S/M activities and fetishes, including branding, whipping and bondage.
• HypnoPassion - Offers information on hypnosis related to dominance and submission. Includes journals, stories, articles, a forum and a chat, and related links.
• i was cured - Canadian suspension group located out of Toronto and Southern Ontario. Includes image gallery, membership information, and links.
• K-Web: Wax Play - Tips for beginners, including candle selection, ways to adjust the sensation, and cleaning the wax off the body.
• Play Party Etiquette - How to conduct yourself at a BDSM play party.
• sexuality.org: How to Use Clothespins - Reprint of an anonymous alt.sex.bondage article on using clothespins in BDSM. Includes techniques for various parts of the body, and several zipper designs.

Consensual Slavery:

• Absolute D/s - Dedicated to the mailing list of the same name, with articles and information about the list, for people who are currently involved in a M/f Absolute Power Exchange, cohabiting, 24/7, Master / slave relationship.
• AbsoluteBDSM - A Y!Group which claims to be "home to the absolutist minority within the BDSM lifestyle, for whom a master/mistress and slave relationship means that the slave is owned property, whose sole purpose is to serve and obey his/her owner. "
• angel's Twisted Journey - The daily journal of a TPE 24/7 BDSM slave whose Master/husband is a sadist. The journal contains real life issues and candid feelings on related topics.
• Born Slaves - Discussing the concept of "Born Slaves" who develop through the power of SM.
• Butchmann's Academy - Organises residential courses and workshops, and publishes the Collars journal, dedicated to Mastery and slavery.
• Dreamslave's Forest - A realm dedicated to exploring the nature of female submission and slavery in a BDSM context.
• The Estate - Promotes a "slave training facility" in New York with a small collection of unique articles about slave training.
• Guardian's Fortress - A community orientated site about adult consensual slavery, catering specifically for female slaves and owners of both genders.
• House of Shadowfind - An alternative lifestyle friendly bed and breakfast, which runs a training school for 24/7 D/s relationships.
• House of Tanos - A personal overview of the Master/slave subculture.
• Internal Enslavement - Aims to develop practical techniques to establish and maintain a solid and inescapable state of ownership.
• International Master's Association - Designed for men who enjoy or desire a Master/slave relationship. Includes a newsletter, separate Master and slave discussion forums, photography, and resource listings. [membership required]
• Lessons Learned - Nearly daily journal updates from a 12 year plus Master/slave relationship.
• Lisa's Journey - Online journal of a female submissive in a Master-slave relationship. Other subjects also discussed, including what it's like to be a NYer these days, with regular updates and pictures.
• Master Stern and slave yielding's BDSM Lifestyle - Includes a slave training guide, advice for slaves, essays and images.
• Masters and slaves Together - MAsT exists as a support group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. It is an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain/share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.
• MasterslaveTPE - A Y!Group which intends to support serious, on-topic discussion of "No limits, No options, No out clause type relationships."
• Midnight's Homepage - Midnight's page about her 24/7 M/s lifestyle.
• Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual - A book which deals with many aspects of slavery, including types of slave, rituals, forms of service, punishment, The Collar, and tools of the trade. [Amazon]
• The Red Cabbage - Personal account of the life of a submissive by Tobie.
• Sartan Of Treve - With information about Sartan and Jenni's M/s relationship.
• Slavery, Submission, and Fulfillment - Dreamer's description of his consensual slavery relationships.
• Submissive Women Speak Back - A Y!Club discussing Total Power Exchange and offering support to women who have previously been mentored by Jon Jacobs and Polly Peachum. (It describes itself as "a place for the victims of the JJ cult to share their stories and gain support.")
• The Submissive's Co-operative - "A community building educational resource for submissive women who know they must have full time, real life, permanent relationships with dominant partners in order to be happy and fulfilled."
• TPEvolutions - A Y!Group discussing committed power relationships and relevant issues, events, and practices.
• yaldahtovah's world - Essays, fiction, poetry and a look inside the world of a 24/7 slave, by the author of "The Healthy Submissive" and other works about the psychology of extreme D/s.

Femdom:

• Max Fisch Domina Guide - Extensive worldwide listing of professional female dominants; with active discussion boards covering reviews, health, and other BDSM topics.
• ProDomiNation - Interviews, photos, and video, put together by pro dominants to support the prodomination legal defense fund project.
• ASG - A fantasy trip through a D/s fortress.
• Bella's List - Worldwide Pro-Domme Listing - International listing of Dominant Women, with websites sorted by location and listed with description, image, video and audio. Interviews and stories are also featured.
• Contacting a Pro Dominant - Guidance on approaching a professional dominatrix. An article, written by Mistress Matisse, giving advice on initiating contact, conduct and expectations. [Jane's Guide]
• Diana The Valkyrie - Body building woman with a femdom attitude offering a newsletter, stories, art and chat. (Membership required for some features.)
• Dickie Virgin's Domination Guide - World-wide Dominatrix listings with a quick-click photo option and gallery.
• Domina Network - Femdom portal featuring a monthly e-zine, articles, Domina directory, mailing list, links, and an AVS protected galleries section requiring CyberAge Platinum.
• DominaGuide - A free international mistress directory, featuring interviews and essays.
• Eilean Beithe - Short courses based on traditional Scottish boarding school, stories, art and information.
• Empowerment Through Submission - Femdom interviews, articles, and message boards.
• Females In Control - Oriented toward female domination/supremacy, featuring articles, Q&A, stories, personals, links, and event listings.
• Femdom Christians - Support and discussion group for those with an interest in the intersection of female domination and Christianity. (Yahoo! Group)
• FemDom.com - Provides a directory of professional domination services, listed by location.
• Femdomlinks.com - Categories include general information, personal sites, and resources.
• Femdoms.com - Femdom directory featuring many top names in professional domination. Learn who they are by reading their interviews and stories, viewing the photo galleries, visiting their sites and videos.
• Femme Dominance - Portal featuring Femdom lifestyle information and interviews, a site review section, and links to adult toy and movie stores.
• FemSupreme - Female supremacy stories, education and information.
• Forced to Feminize - An online magazine for dominant women who feminize their husbands.
• Goddess Club - Free site for men who worship Women and for Women who want to be treated like a Goddess. FemDom videos, pics, stories, articles, personal ads, online store.
• International Domme Directory - An online resource for finding both professional and lifestyle Dommes around the world.
• Jaguar's World - An educational and entertaining look at Fem Dommes and D/s-BDSM.
• Long Distance Femdom BDSM - Advice and discussion group for those conducting Femdom relationships via long-distance. (Yahoo! group)
• Male Punishment - Femdom discussion group with an emphasis on the discipline of male submissives. (MSN Community.)
• Male Submission - Male FAQs, personals, and links.
• Mistress and sub - Mistress Fox and teaseme discuss the FemDomme/malesub lifestyle in articles and essays.
• Mistress Wife - Essays about how to control and discipline your man.
• Mrs Birch's Discipline School - Some free pictures, history, biography, and information, as well as a paid membership option.
• The Other World Kingdom - A private state, the structure of which combines dominant women with submissive men.
• Queen Zar's Sanctuary - A place for BBW Dommes to meet serious sub male admirers via chat, discussion and photos.
• Real Women Don't Do Housework - Lady Misato's advice pages - learn about female domination and men as devoted slaves. Includes discussion forums.
• The Steel Door - Theme site featuring personal ads, poems, writings, and a confessional.
• Tease Me's World - Teasing and denial, with original femdom fiction and links.
• Temple Isis - Domain of the Black Domina - Articles and information, free personals, Domme registry, photo gallery.
• Thor's Place - Interviews, message boards, galleries, commentary, and a prodom directory.
• The Vixen-Lady Cafe - Message boards and a link directory for those interested in professional domination.
• Whap! Magazine - A preview of print publication, subscription information, femdom links, and lively message board.
• You Do Voodoo - Provides a variety of BDSM related information. Includes mission, vision and contact information, a shopping guide, news and related links.

Maledom:

• The Online Training Academy - Fee-based BDSM training for dominant men and submissive women.
• Sneaky and Nice - A collection of essays and stories about "Domestic Discipline", a 24/7 lifestyle where the man is master of the household and of his woman.

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