Arts:

• Marquis de Panasewicz – Fantasy artist in various domains, of both CGI format and the traditional.

Activities and Practices:

• Abrasion: Rubbing You the Right Way – History and suggestions relating to the “erotic stimulation of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking.”
• Animal Training – Introduction to and overview of the terms, motivations and methods of this form of play.
• BDSM-Online – Articles addressing techniques, safety, disabilities, and reference material.
• Deviants’ Dictionary: Cock Torture – The parts of the penis and how to be cruel to them. Includes articles on ball torture and BDSM first aid.
• Fire Play – Anonymous article covering first aid and safety issues, using magician’s flash cotton, making alcohol torches, and some suggestion for ways to enjoy briefly applying fire to skin.
• Gay Male S/M Activists: Selected Articles – A number of articles covering S/M activities and fetishes, including branding, whipping and bondage.
• HypnoPassion – Offers information on hypnosis related to dominance and submission. Includes journals, stories, articles, a forum and a chat, and related links.
• i was cured – Canadian suspension group located out of Toronto and Southern Ontario. Includes image gallery, membership information, and links.
• K-Web: Wax Play – Tips for beginners, including candle selection, ways to adjust the sensation, and cleaning the wax off the body.
• Play Party Etiquette – How to conduct yourself at a BDSM play party.
• sexuality.org: How to Use Clothespins – Reprint of an anonymous alt.sex.bondage article on using clothespins in BDSM. Includes techniques for various parts of the body, and several zipper designs.

Consensual Slavery:

• Absolute D/s – Dedicated to the mailing list of the same name, with articles and information about the list, for people who are currently involved in a M/f Absolute Power Exchange, cohabiting, 24/7, Master / slave relationship.
• AbsoluteBDSM – A Y!Group which claims to be “home to the absolutist minority within the BDSM lifestyle, for whom a master/mistress and slave relationship means that the slave is owned property, whose sole purpose is to serve and obey his/her owner. “
• angel’s Twisted Journey – The daily journal of a TPE 24/7 BDSM slave whose Master/husband is a sadist. The journal contains real life issues and candid feelings on related topics.
• Born Slaves – Discussing the concept of “Born Slaves” who develop through the power of SM.
• Butchmann’s Academy – Organises residential courses and workshops, and publishes the Collars journal, dedicated to Mastery and slavery.
• Dreamslave’s Forest – A realm dedicated to exploring the nature of female submission and slavery in a BDSM context.
• The Estate – Promotes a “slave training facility” in New York with a small collection of unique articles about slave training.
• Guardian’s Fortress – A community orientated site about adult consensual slavery, catering specifically for female slaves and owners of both genders.
• House of Shadowfind – An alternative lifestyle friendly bed and breakfast, which runs a training school for 24/7 D/s relationships.
• House of Tanos – A personal overview of the Master/slave subculture.
• Internal Enslavement – Aims to develop practical techniques to establish and maintain a solid and inescapable state of ownership.
• International Master’s Association – Designed for men who enjoy or desire a Master/slave relationship. Includes a newsletter, separate Master and slave discussion forums, photography, and resource listings. [membership required]
• Lessons Learned – Nearly daily journal updates from a 12 year plus Master/slave relationship.
• Lisa’s Journey – Online journal of a female submissive in a Master-slave relationship. Other subjects also discussed, including what it’s like to be a NYer these days, with regular updates and pictures.
• Master Stern and slave yielding’s BDSM Lifestyle – Includes a slave training guide, advice for slaves, essays and images.
• Masters and slaves Together – MAsT exists as a support group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. It is an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain/share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.
• MasterslaveTPE – A Y!Group which intends to support serious, on-topic discussion of “No limits, No options, No out clause type relationships.”
• Midnight’s Homepage – Midnight’s page about her 24/7 M/s lifestyle.
• Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual – A book which deals with many aspects of slavery, including types of slave, rituals, forms of service, punishment, The Collar, and tools of the trade. [Amazon]
• The Red Cabbage – Personal account of the life of a submissive by Tobie.
• Sartan Of Treve – With information about Sartan and Jenni’s M/s relationship.
• Slavery, Submission, and Fulfillment – Dreamer’s description of his consensual slavery relationships.
• Submissive Women Speak Back – A Y!Club discussing Total Power Exchange and offering support to women who have previously been mentored by Jon Jacobs and Polly Peachum. (It describes itself as “a place for the victims of the JJ cult to share their stories and gain support.”)
• The Submissive’s Co-operative – “A community building educational resource for submissive women who know they must have full time, real life, permanent relationships with dominant partners in order to be happy and fulfilled.”
• TPEvolutions – A Y!Group discussing committed power relationships and relevant issues, events, and practices.
• yaldahtovah’s world – Essays, fiction, poetry and a look inside the world of a 24/7 slave, by the author of “The Healthy Submissive” and other works about the psychology of extreme D/s.

Femdom:

• Max Fisch Domina Guide – Extensive worldwide listing of professional female dominants; with active discussion boards covering reviews, health, and other BDSM topics.
• ProDomiNation – Interviews, photos, and video, put together by pro dominants to support the prodomination legal defense fund project.
• ASG – A fantasy trip through a D/s fortress.
• Bella’s List – Worldwide Pro-Domme Listing – International listing of Dominant Women, with websites sorted by location and listed with description, image, video and audio. Interviews and stories are also featured.
• Contacting a Pro Dominant – Guidance on approaching a professional dominatrix. An article, written by Mistress Matisse, giving advice on initiating contact, conduct and expectations. [Jane's Guide]
• Diana The Valkyrie – Body building woman with a femdom attitude offering a newsletter, stories, art and chat. (Membership required for some features.)
• Dickie Virgin’s Domination Guide – World-wide Dominatrix listings with a quick-click photo option and gallery.
• Domina Network – Femdom portal featuring a monthly e-zine, articles, Domina directory, mailing list, links, and an AVS protected galleries section requiring CyberAge Platinum.
• DominaGuide – A free international mistress directory, featuring interviews and essays.
• Eilean Beithe – Short courses based on traditional Scottish boarding school, stories, art and information.
• Empowerment Through Submission – Femdom interviews, articles, and message boards.
• Females In Control – Oriented toward female domination/supremacy, featuring articles, Q&A, stories, personals, links, and event listings.
• Femdom Christians – Support and discussion group for those with an interest in the intersection of female domination and Christianity. (Yahoo! Group)
• FemDom.com – Provides a directory of professional domination services, listed by location.
• Femdomlinks.com – Categories include general information, personal sites, and resources.
• Femdoms.com – Femdom directory featuring many top names in professional domination. Learn who they are by reading their interviews and stories, viewing the photo galleries, visiting their sites and videos.
• Femme Dominance – Portal featuring Femdom lifestyle information and interviews, a site review section, and links to adult toy and movie stores.
• FemSupreme – Female supremacy stories, education and information.
• Forced to Feminize – An online magazine for dominant women who feminize their husbands.
• Goddess Club – Free site for men who worship Women and for Women who want to be treated like a Goddess. FemDom videos, pics, stories, articles, personal ads, online store.
• International Domme Directory – An online resource for finding both professional and lifestyle Dommes around the world.
• Jaguar’s World – An educational and entertaining look at Fem Dommes and D/s-BDSM.
• Long Distance Femdom BDSM – Advice and discussion group for those conducting Femdom relationships via long-distance. (Yahoo! group)
• Male Punishment – Femdom discussion group with an emphasis on the discipline of male submissives. (MSN Community.)
• Male Submission – Male FAQs, personals, and links.
• Mistress and sub – Mistress Fox and teaseme discuss the FemDomme/malesub lifestyle in articles and essays.
• Mistress Wife – Essays about how to control and discipline your man.
• Mrs Birch’s Discipline School – Some free pictures, history, biography, and information, as well as a paid membership option.
• The Other World Kingdom – A private state, the structure of which combines dominant women with submissive men.
• Queen Zar’s Sanctuary – A place for BBW Dommes to meet serious sub male admirers via chat, discussion and photos.
• Real Women Don’t Do Housework – Lady Misato’s advice pages – learn about female domination and men as devoted slaves. Includes discussion forums.
• The Steel Door – Theme site featuring personal ads, poems, writings, and a confessional.
• Tease Me’s World – Teasing and denial, with original femdom fiction and links.
• Temple Isis – Domain of the Black Domina – Articles and information, free personals, Domme registry, photo gallery.
• Thor’s Place – Interviews, message boards, galleries, commentary, and a prodom directory.
• The Vixen-Lady Cafe – Message boards and a link directory for those interested in professional domination.
• Whap! Magazine – A preview of print publication, subscription information, femdom links, and lively message board.
• You Do Voodoo – Provides a variety of BDSM related information. Includes mission, vision and contact information, a shopping guide, news and related links.

Maledom:

• The Online Training Academy – Fee-based BDSM training for dominant men and submissive women.
• Sneaky and Nice – A collection of essays and stories about “Domestic Discipline”, a 24/7 lifestyle where the man is master of the household and of his woman.

There are many different types of gags. One kind of is the over-the-mouth gag, which uses soft stuffs such as bandannas and scarves etc. Then there are cleaving gags where the gage is drawn between his/her teeth. The next kind of gag is the ball gag, which is generally made of silicone or rubber shaped like that of a sphere with a strip going through its diameter. Ball gags are commonly used in BDSM activities. A ring gag is very much similar to that of a ball gag. But in a ring gag, the ball is replaced by a hollow ring. A ring gag is safer as compared to a ball gag since there is less chance of choking involved in the ring gag.

Another kind of gag is the bit gag. It bears a fleeting likeness to the bit used in a horse and therefore its sexual value arises from the symbolism in human pony play. However, it is very important that all gags are used by consenting adults because they can have fatal consequences otherwise. Therefore it should never be forced into the mouth of someone who’s resisting or someone with flu or cold or just any type of respiratory problem.

Women with a craving for hogtied bondage may be suspended, hogtied, strapped to bondage tools and brought to orgasm under force, apart from other possibilities. Plenty of vibrating and dildo fucking can be involved with sexy women in severe bondage.

With the pressure on the abdomen the hogtied position can be strenuous leading to breathing difficulty. According to the abilities of the partners involved, hogtied, even in less intensity can prove extremely difficult to endure especially for extended durations.

In the classic hogtied position, one of the partners has his wrists bound and tied to the ankles. It is not necessary that it should be severe or inescapable. The partner who has been bound in the hogtied position may be free to release himself or herself by untying the knots.

Usually the hogtied person is able to turn over in the front. However in situations involving a narrow sofa or bed, they can easily fall off. This is all the more likely when there is a blindfold that prevents the person from seeing his movements. One option is to roll to the side to ease discomfort. But in the more challenging situations, it may not be possible to even roll oneself to the side at all.

One of the variations in hogtied is to have the ankles tied to the elbows. The tension on the body is greatly increased with the proximity of the ankles to the elbows. At the same time the knots are kept out of reach of the tied person making him even more helpless in subjugation.

Unlike the western style of bondage, which merely restricts the bottom, Japanese Bondage puts pressure on specific parts of the body such as the breast and genital regions to provide sensual pleasure. The tied person has to achieve a perfect aesthetic pose and Japanese Bondage especially engages asymmetric postures to intensify the mental imprint of the style.

Some of the Japanese Bondage methods have been developed from Hojojutsu— orthodox mode of Japanese martial arts, for constraining people with twines or rope. Japanese Bondage is a much milder method, and tremendous precaution is practiced to prevent harm of any kind.

The use of Japanese Bondage or Shibari for sexual gratification was first documented way back in the Edo era. The founder father of Japanese Bondage Ito Seiu, in 1908, transformed it into an artistic style after extensively examining Hojohutsu. Japanese Bondage gained more popularity in the 1950’s after being printed as a magazine and people attribute it to John Willie. Japan saw the emergence of Japanese Bondage as a conventional “performance act” in the 1960’s.

Shibari is greatly inspired by the blackest eras of Japan, the Sengoku era which is infamous for its brutal techniques of torment and slaying, comprising usage of fire, daggers, tattoos, stones, boiling water, and rocking horses, etc. Japanese Bondage has evolved over the years from a traditional performing art to a method for having sexual pleasure.

Today, many variants of Japanese Bondage style of rope usage have become popular, but Shibari is in vogue in Japan.

Related sites:

• Japanese bondage – Wikipedia
• Bondage Sites

It doesn’t matter whether you are a die-hard fan of latex bondage or you are its latest admirer, it will do you no harm to stack away a few time tested latex bondage accouterments in your wardrobe. When going out for a romantic evening, include some exciting and risqué element to your dress, by sporting latex mitts with sexy bustier or halter to enhance your desirability? Encasing your shapely legs in latex stockings and keeping them warm in winters and matching them up with any type of skirts can make you look like a showstopper.

Latex Bondage may appear somewhat intimidating in the beginning as it involves some guidance to get into a dress. So the best way to start is by wearing modest latex bondage. Don’t be bothered about being regarded as a fledgling or a milksop by others. The bravado and assurance conveyed by latex bondage is simply mind blowing, so be rest assured each small step of yours will help you to exhibit your sparkle and vivaciousness.

You can become a part of the fashion circuit by wearing latex brassiere and panties. Wearing them beneath your outfit is not at all uncomfortable; rather it imparts a feeling of latex comfort and relief throughout the day. Wearing the latex bondage to an exclusive rendezvous may assist you in bowling over your partner.

Including a few latex bondage intimate apparels to your collection is a very exhilarating way of trying out sensuality. So drape yourself in the hot latex bondage outfits and enthrall your partner.

Several slang expressions have been coined for the various types of lesbian bondage. Dyke or bulldyke are slang for a lesbian with masculine traits, even though she may not be a homosexual. They are often looked upon in a derogatory manner by people but are embraced within their own homosexual society.

The bond among lesbianism and lesbian branded transgenders or transsexual woman who distinguished to be under lesbian bondage has always been a tumultuous one. There have been rampant hostilities in the past but now things are settling down. The twentieth century has brought with it winds of change.

Several lesbian bondage groups unequivocally accept transsexual women and are open to others considered to be under lesbian bondage. There are groups that are still closed to transsexual women, though groups like the Lesbian Avengers have an all-embracing policy.

A lot of women in lesbian bondage do not like to be termed as lesbians but would prefer being called bisexual. Similar to any social activity, sexual manifestation hinges on the nature and basis of the relationships. Irrespective of their sexual inclinations lesbians can be wanton or dedicated, embarrassed or dignified.

The wide gamut of lesbian bondage demeanor can be deceptive. Winds of change sweeping over the western and some other societies have encouraged women under lesbian bondage to manifest their sexual leanings openly, starting new researches on lesbian bondage sexuality.

Discussions are on about the authority women have over their sexual preferences and their lives. The whole concept of female sexuality needs to be overhauled.

The fundamental laws of mummification are uncomplicated. The method of mummification starts with the person sitting, bottom naked and with legs slightly raised. The material of preference should be wrapped around his or her feet and ankles. The legs should be wrapped separately before fastening them as one. And then make him or her stand and carry on wrapping the legs, around the torso and waist and finally around the chest. You should take care that no gap is left uncovered. Go on till there are quite a few full layers. Then wrap up his or her face and neck. However, as a precaution, keep at hand before starting just in case the need for a quick release arises. Also, this is very important, leave space for inhalation.

The other thing that would useful to keep in mind is that it’s a good idea to put some cotton swabs on the nipples since it makes it easy to slice and exposing the tits without endangering them to the cuts. So, though it can be a lot of fun, remember to play the act of mummification safely. Also, if you use latex, ensure that there are openings for the nose and mouth. Also, during mummification it’s usual to feel sensory deficiency & get the feeling that you are hanging in some stellar plane and are absolutely free from feeling, weight, sound and sight etc.

Pantyhose bondage is a name that has been extended from the word ‘panties’ that are used as women’s underpants. This term ‘pantyhose bondage’ was originally used in America and is used to denote all non-sheer garments that are worn by dancers, athletes and girls.

There are many styles of Pantyhose bondages that are available in the market. The garment’s fineness is a numerical value. The barely visible one is Pantyhose of range 3, whereas a standard sheer is used for pantyhose of range 20 and a number 30 pantyhose is semi-opaque.

A large variety of colors and textures in Pantyhose bondages are available with each color having its own significance. If the color of the Pantyhose matches the color of the skin of the leg, the appearance of the legs will enhance greatly as there will be an appearance of greater smoothness of the legs. The legs will appear slimmer if darker pantyhose are used and the legs will appear tanned if brown colored pantyhose are used.

The practical aspect of wearing Pantyhose bondage is that you will experience warmth in colder weather and you can appear “bare-legged” even in the coldest weather. Moreover, if Pantyhose bondage has been knitted with Lycra, the blood circulation will improve due to the uniform pressure exerted on the legs throughout the day. Pantyhose bondage has become an integral part of a woman’s lingerie wardrobe and most men are turned on by its sight when the woman is wearing it. Its enticing qualities are that it is shiny, silky and sheer-to-waist.

Pantyhose bondage gives a woman sexy looks, comfort, and the latest style statement – what else can a woman want?

There are many types of restraints (bondages) available in the market including bondage rope, love masks, leather dog leash, restraint kit, leather cuffs, liberator wedge, bondage set, suspension cuffs etc. These restraints that are normally used during sex, appeal to both men and women having all types of sexual fantasies.

It has, however, been found that the basic act of sex has greater appeal than any other fantasy and restraint comes second. In the restraint method, one of the partners is normally restrained and the other partner is more active and dominant.

There are different reasons for which people enjoy the eroticism of restraint which include the physical sensation of restraint, the feeling of pressure or pulling, the enjoyment of struggling against the restraint at the time of getting stimulated sexually or otherwise, the scintillating experience of orgasm control while in bondage, and the feeling of power that you can control your sexual organs. Moreover, there might be a fetishistic interest in the operations of the restraint and its equipment due to which maximum sexual pleasure can be derived.

Restraint should only be practiced with sober and trusted partners as careless handling can lead to physical injury and pain. Safety precautions must be taken keeping in mind the possible areas of misuse and risks of getting hurt.

Restraint should only be practiced with sober and trusted partners as careless handling can lead to physical injury and pain. Safety precautions must be taken keeping in mind the possible areas of misuse and risks of getting hurt.

The origin of the term Sadismus can be traced to the German psychiatrist and forensic pathologist Dr. Richard of Krafft Ebing. Sadismus is also a sequel to the mixture of pornographic content and Gewaltfantasien in the novels of Donatien Alphonse François Marquis de Sade.

A majority of Sados are characterized by homosexual suitors comprising of there women, who are seeking a predominant BDSM partner from among the vast multitude of dominant men, especially those who are not commercially inclined but possess the ability to perform the sadistic actions.

Unlike the case of Dominas, there is widespread sexual intercourse between Sados and their customers. In the sexual intercourse scenario, the typical female power instrument is the Verweigerung.

It has been noticed that there are very few specialized Sados in Germany who can survive only on this activity. Mostly these Sados have to look for additional occupations such as Callboys. In order to survive on the activities of merely being a Sado, you would need expensive equipments and considerable amount of self-discipline which is missing in most strichers.

Sadism as practiced by Sados involves the use of power or force over other humans or animals as this provides sexual titillation, satisfaction and pleasure to the customers. The actions of Sados represent a play for sexual intercourse in such a way that it is downright humiliating to the partner, who might be prepared for the pain.

If the medical angle is considered, it can easily be seen that there are many essential differences between the two primary developments of the Sados.