• Amazon Online – Resources for lesbians and bi-women. News and health information, some specific to the San Francisco Bay area.
• Big Dykes – Chat, rant, movie preview, humour and stories. Online lesbian community and support.
• Classic Dykes – Articles, columns, and message boards for women forty and older.
• Dyke Universe – Events in the United Kingdom, editorials, chatroom, message boards, film reviews, fictional stories, and radio.
• Dykenation – Articles, poetry, personals, chat, horoscopes, resources, and shopping.
• E-Sappho – Lesbian lifestyle site, events calendar, health, humour, art, poetry, literature, reviews, news items and special profiles in English, French and Flemish.
• Gingerbeer London Lesbian Guide – Up-to-date information on women-only spaces, lesbian clubs, dyke bars, queer shops and gay restaurants in London UK.
• GirlClub – Gay women’s club guide – Guide to clubs, bars, events, movies, books, magazines, sports.
• Lesbian Issues – Covers topics of interest to lesbians.
• The Lesbian Realm – News, celebrates, surveys, forums and discussion groups, butch-femme and lesbian issues.
• Lesbian Support – IVF mum to be, lesbian support links and chat.
• Lesbian UK – A national listing of resources and activities for Lesbians in the UK.
• Lesbian Worlds – Providing resources and information of issues, events, politics, discussions and community.
• Lesbianation – Latest travel destinations, sports, entertainment, business and health news for the lesbian community.
• Lesbian.com – An international resource for, by, and about lesbians and queer women. Lesbian.com is an alternative, fun, relevant resource for dykes around the world.
• Lesbian.org – A web site dedicated to promoting lesbian visibility on the internet by providing resources, information, publications and mailing lists for lesbians.
• Lesbians R Us – Created by two students in a women’s studies class at ISU. Features current issues and discussion.
• LisaJain – Lesbian resources, rights of same sex partners, programs to download, Cleopatra 2525. Designed and maintained by L. J. Thompson & Starpoet.
• The Love Site – Lesbian stories, poems, coming out information and advice column.
• The Lovely Lesbian – Female centered site dedicated to lesbian culture, history, arts, politics, and resources.
• The New AmazoNation – Amazon women warriors. Artemis Goddess of the Moon. History of the ancient Amazon women.
• Pink Lemonz – A website focused on women for women.
• Purplebus – Online resource for lesbians in the UK.
• Queer Women on the Net – A webring connecting websites made by and for Queer Womyn.
• Red Cherry Lips – Lesbian diaries, horrorscopes, email fun and inside jokes.
• 1970s Lesbian Feminism – Traces the development and emergence of lesbian feminism in the 1970s. Booklist and links.
• Sapphos Place – Lesbian lifestyles, news, rights issues,and family issues.
• Shoujo-Ai – A webclique for showing off your favorite lesbian couple.
• Sisterspace – Sisterspace hosts The Weekend – a Lesbian’s Festival full of fun, dancing, sports, workshops and Wimmin.
• That Fat Dyke – Positive resources for fat lesbians.
• Under the Couch – Breaking down the lesbian stereotype mode with stories, lesbian icons and humor.
• Womyn 2 Womyn – Site for womyns issues, health, sports, art, poetry, and short stories.
• Womyn.org – Dedicated to promoting womyn and lesbian visibility on the internet by providing resources, information, publications, books, postcards, and fun.

Realistically speaking women no longer think of achieving orgasm as a lucky shot in the dark. Now their juices need to flow and without delay. Sex tips help men to become aware of some of the preferred sexual positions that suit women. Unfortunately for the guys, having fellatio performed with her on her knees isn’t included.

Women are increasingly becoming assertive and more unlikely to behave submissively in sexual matters. The mere fact that most men constantly try their best to initiate the woman’s orgasm proves it.

There are a number of sexual positions that most women find enjoyable. You can try these sexual positions with your woman the next time you indulge in sex and make sure that she experiences some exceptional orgasmic pleasure.

Start by spicing up the woman on her back position by having her participate in all the thrusting, pumping, gyrating and coital hip movements involved in sexual positions. She should lift her hips to match every thrust from you. Try a variety of angles in sexual positions. This will create variations in penetration depth and intensify the sex. In this sexual position, she should raise her knees, resting her feet on the bed or ground and gyrate her hips as you take her to new heights of sexual pleasure.

Missionary with raised legs
Hard as it may be to believe, plenty of women prefer the missionary sexual position. This position may be considered the flannel pajamas of sex but sex isn’t always necessarily about swinging from chandeliers and rough play. Very often women, as well as men actually enjoy body love that doesn’t involve merely a vagina, breasts and a penis. Eye contact, body massage and unspoken communication are equally involved. Women particularly enjoy the feeling of being central to a man’s world and the best way to show a man’s love for her is to literally make love to her.

Missionary position doesn’t necessarily need to involve only the usual in and out movements. Use a pillow under her buttocks, keep your upper body raised resting on your arms or both partners can hold each other’s butts, even as you maneuver in dance-like movements inside her.

Missionary with a twist
A particularly big built man should keep movements slow to ensure his partner’s comfort. The woman should first lie on her back at the edge of the bed, before spreading her legs and resting one on the floor. The man mounts her with one leg resting on the floor and the other kneeling on the bed, to ensure maximum thrust.

Reverse cowgirl
For men into bums, the reverse cowgirl position can be a visual delight. It may take some practice to perfect the angle but the effort will be worthwhile. She sits astride the man, facing his feet by straddling backwards. Her hands rest either on his knees or on both sides of his body for leverage. This gives the man a great view of her buttocks while giving her immense G-spot stimulation. Her movements should be slow to avoid bending the penis too far back.

Practice is most important for the sexual positions as it is the means to uncovering the secrets of sexual pleasure. Ensuring that your lovemaking technique is energetic, intense and outstanding, there will be no question of him falling asleep.

Getting a bigger cup size does not have to be a big ordeal anymore. You do not have to worry about being in a hospital for long periods. You can be in and out of the hospital in no time at all. As with any surgery, there are risks that you have to consider. However, with the right doctor and medical facility, you should have no problems at all and be able to get on your way with your new great looking breasts. Getting a breast enlargement is a great small breast solution.

If you are not into the whole operation thing, you can do other things as a small breast solution. You can buy push up bras to help fill our your clothes better. These are a great way to enhance your breasts and make you feel better about yourself. You can find great bras that are affordable and will make you look great at the same time. You can go to almost any lingerie shop to get all the bras and lingerie that you want. You can also use other things as small breast solutions. You can do this with some padding in your bra. In other words this means stuffing your bra to make it appear like you have bigger breasts.

The above are great temporary fixes, but you will want something to last for a lifetime. Those temporary fixes will not work out for you when you are alone with your partner. They will quickly realize that your breasts are not as big as they once looked. They will be shocked when they see that it was not real in the first place and they may be disappointed. This could ruin your entire evening.

If you are upset about your body, you can take care of it with a small breast solution. You can go and have your smaller breasts enlarged and you will be one step closer to feeling the way that you should and getting excited about your body. When you go with the real breast enlargements, you will not have to worry about embarrassing intimate moments when you have to expose your body. You can feel confident and have a great time.

Having your small breast solutions done does not have to be a huge ordeal. You can keep it confidential so that no one will ever know that your breast has been enhanced. You can it to your self and everyone will think nothing of it. They may notice that you are looking a little different but most people would never come right out and ask you if you have had a breast enlargement. If they do ask you what you have done to yourself, just tell them that you are working out. That will make them believe anything.

In order to have a small breast solution done to your body, you want to make sure that you are completely done growing. In other words, you do not want to have and kind of breast enhancement before the age of 18. You want to make sure that your body is ready for this kind of procedure. Once you are done growing you can then make the decision along with a doctor’s help if you are going to go for a breast enlargement or not.

It may not be enough to merely think you are ready for it. You need to be sure that you are. The difference isn’t easy to distinguish. You may be getting signals from your body, which are contradicted by the way your heart and mind feel about them. It’s important that you know and trust your partner not to mention yourself, as you can’t undo it once you have sex. So be sure, smart and ready if there are to be no regrets.

Before having sex go through these steps:

Prepare for the occasion by talking it out with your partner well in advance so that both of you can be sure you are ready. If doubts persist, abandon plans, as it is perfectly normal to abstain in a relationship. Birth control is a subject that needs proper awareness regarding options for birth control methods. If possible talk to out with a family member or friend who has already been through the experience.

Irrespective of all other birth control measures and whatever your partner would have you believe about past sexual history, a condom is an absolute must. It is also advisable to make sure you aren’t drunk, under the influence of drugs or incapable of making proper decisions and make sure the same applies to your partner.

Another thing to be certain about is that you care for your partner and that the only reason you are going to do it, is only because of your feelings. Vague reasons like being cooler, being accepted and losing virginity don’t count. Pick a place that is comfortable, private, quite and if possible, pleasant. There should be no possibility of interruption.

Ignore feelings of nervousness and try to relax by taking a deep breath. Take your time with kissing and fondling, also known as foreplay. Indulge in it as much as possible.

Speak soothingly and be gentle, considerate and affectionate. It’s better to speak about everything you are about to do. Never for even a moment ignore anything your partner says. Both of you have the right to stop at any point whatsoever the reason.

Undress each other slowly being alert to body language of the other person. Any sign of hesitation calls for a pause or slowing down. Kiss and get comfortable while letting your instincts, reason and responses from your partner dictate your movements and pace.

It’s supposed to be an enjoyable experience so take your time and let your bodies get acquainted with each other. Everybody gets a first time only once so don’t blow it.

When you get to the intercourse or penetration, be sure once again that both of you still want to go all the way. Sex is not some kind of a love test but just a means of expressing love.

Let your instincts and your heart guides your movements. It is important that you are comfortable and at ease before physically performing the intercourse and doing what comes naturally.

Most unfortunately being labeled a tease is considered as bad as being easy. More than anything else they merely indicate the lack of maturity that most teens have towards sex. Sex isn’t at all to do with other people’s impression of you but your own impression of yourself. It is you who will have to live with your body so you get to decide what and when you want to do with it. Saying no is not a crime and if the voice within you demands it, go ahead and refuse.

Arts:

• Marquis de Panasewicz – Fantasy artist in various domains, of both CGI format and the traditional.

Activities and Practices:

• Abrasion: Rubbing You the Right Way – History and suggestions relating to the “erotic stimulation of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking.”
• Animal Training – Introduction to and overview of the terms, motivations and methods of this form of play.
• BDSM-Online – Articles addressing techniques, safety, disabilities, and reference material.
• Deviants’ Dictionary: Cock Torture – The parts of the penis and how to be cruel to them. Includes articles on ball torture and BDSM first aid.
• Fire Play – Anonymous article covering first aid and safety issues, using magician’s flash cotton, making alcohol torches, and some suggestion for ways to enjoy briefly applying fire to skin.
• Gay Male S/M Activists: Selected Articles – A number of articles covering S/M activities and fetishes, including branding, whipping and bondage.
• HypnoPassion – Offers information on hypnosis related to dominance and submission. Includes journals, stories, articles, a forum and a chat, and related links.
• i was cured – Canadian suspension group located out of Toronto and Southern Ontario. Includes image gallery, membership information, and links.
• K-Web: Wax Play – Tips for beginners, including candle selection, ways to adjust the sensation, and cleaning the wax off the body.
• Play Party Etiquette – How to conduct yourself at a BDSM play party.
• sexuality.org: How to Use Clothespins – Reprint of an anonymous alt.sex.bondage article on using clothespins in BDSM. Includes techniques for various parts of the body, and several zipper designs.

Consensual Slavery:

• Absolute D/s – Dedicated to the mailing list of the same name, with articles and information about the list, for people who are currently involved in a M/f Absolute Power Exchange, cohabiting, 24/7, Master / slave relationship.
• AbsoluteBDSM – A Y!Group which claims to be “home to the absolutist minority within the BDSM lifestyle, for whom a master/mistress and slave relationship means that the slave is owned property, whose sole purpose is to serve and obey his/her owner. “
• angel’s Twisted Journey – The daily journal of a TPE 24/7 BDSM slave whose Master/husband is a sadist. The journal contains real life issues and candid feelings on related topics.
• Born Slaves – Discussing the concept of “Born Slaves” who develop through the power of SM.
• Butchmann’s Academy – Organises residential courses and workshops, and publishes the Collars journal, dedicated to Mastery and slavery.
• Dreamslave’s Forest – A realm dedicated to exploring the nature of female submission and slavery in a BDSM context.
• The Estate – Promotes a “slave training facility” in New York with a small collection of unique articles about slave training.
• Guardian’s Fortress – A community orientated site about adult consensual slavery, catering specifically for female slaves and owners of both genders.
• House of Shadowfind – An alternative lifestyle friendly bed and breakfast, which runs a training school for 24/7 D/s relationships.
• House of Tanos – A personal overview of the Master/slave subculture.
• Internal Enslavement – Aims to develop practical techniques to establish and maintain a solid and inescapable state of ownership.
• International Master’s Association – Designed for men who enjoy or desire a Master/slave relationship. Includes a newsletter, separate Master and slave discussion forums, photography, and resource listings. [membership required]
• Lessons Learned – Nearly daily journal updates from a 12 year plus Master/slave relationship.
• Lisa’s Journey – Online journal of a female submissive in a Master-slave relationship. Other subjects also discussed, including what it’s like to be a NYer these days, with regular updates and pictures.
• Master Stern and slave yielding’s BDSM Lifestyle – Includes a slave training guide, advice for slaves, essays and images.
• Masters and slaves Together – MAsT exists as a support group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. It is an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain/share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.
• MasterslaveTPE – A Y!Group which intends to support serious, on-topic discussion of “No limits, No options, No out clause type relationships.”
• Midnight’s Homepage – Midnight’s page about her 24/7 M/s lifestyle.
• Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual – A book which deals with many aspects of slavery, including types of slave, rituals, forms of service, punishment, The Collar, and tools of the trade. [Amazon]
• The Red Cabbage – Personal account of the life of a submissive by Tobie.
• Sartan Of Treve – With information about Sartan and Jenni’s M/s relationship.
• Slavery, Submission, and Fulfillment – Dreamer’s description of his consensual slavery relationships.
• Submissive Women Speak Back – A Y!Club discussing Total Power Exchange and offering support to women who have previously been mentored by Jon Jacobs and Polly Peachum. (It describes itself as “a place for the victims of the JJ cult to share their stories and gain support.”)
• The Submissive’s Co-operative – “A community building educational resource for submissive women who know they must have full time, real life, permanent relationships with dominant partners in order to be happy and fulfilled.”
• TPEvolutions – A Y!Group discussing committed power relationships and relevant issues, events, and practices.
• yaldahtovah’s world – Essays, fiction, poetry and a look inside the world of a 24/7 slave, by the author of “The Healthy Submissive” and other works about the psychology of extreme D/s.

Femdom:

• Max Fisch Domina Guide – Extensive worldwide listing of professional female dominants; with active discussion boards covering reviews, health, and other BDSM topics.
• ProDomiNation – Interviews, photos, and video, put together by pro dominants to support the prodomination legal defense fund project.
• ASG – A fantasy trip through a D/s fortress.
• Bella’s List – Worldwide Pro-Domme Listing – International listing of Dominant Women, with websites sorted by location and listed with description, image, video and audio. Interviews and stories are also featured.
• Contacting a Pro Dominant – Guidance on approaching a professional dominatrix. An article, written by Mistress Matisse, giving advice on initiating contact, conduct and expectations. [Jane's Guide]
• Diana The Valkyrie – Body building woman with a femdom attitude offering a newsletter, stories, art and chat. (Membership required for some features.)
• Dickie Virgin’s Domination Guide – World-wide Dominatrix listings with a quick-click photo option and gallery.
• Domina Network – Femdom portal featuring a monthly e-zine, articles, Domina directory, mailing list, links, and an AVS protected galleries section requiring CyberAge Platinum.
• DominaGuide – A free international mistress directory, featuring interviews and essays.
• Eilean Beithe – Short courses based on traditional Scottish boarding school, stories, art and information.
• Empowerment Through Submission – Femdom interviews, articles, and message boards.
• Females In Control – Oriented toward female domination/supremacy, featuring articles, Q&A, stories, personals, links, and event listings.
• Femdom Christians – Support and discussion group for those with an interest in the intersection of female domination and Christianity. (Yahoo! Group)
• FemDom.com – Provides a directory of professional domination services, listed by location.
• Femdomlinks.com – Categories include general information, personal sites, and resources.
• Femdoms.com – Femdom directory featuring many top names in professional domination. Learn who they are by reading their interviews and stories, viewing the photo galleries, visiting their sites and videos.
• Femme Dominance – Portal featuring Femdom lifestyle information and interviews, a site review section, and links to adult toy and movie stores.
• FemSupreme – Female supremacy stories, education and information.
• Forced to Feminize – An online magazine for dominant women who feminize their husbands.
• Goddess Club – Free site for men who worship Women and for Women who want to be treated like a Goddess. FemDom videos, pics, stories, articles, personal ads, online store.
• International Domme Directory – An online resource for finding both professional and lifestyle Dommes around the world.
• Jaguar’s World – An educational and entertaining look at Fem Dommes and D/s-BDSM.
• Long Distance Femdom BDSM – Advice and discussion group for those conducting Femdom relationships via long-distance. (Yahoo! group)
• Male Punishment – Femdom discussion group with an emphasis on the discipline of male submissives. (MSN Community.)
• Male Submission – Male FAQs, personals, and links.
• Mistress and sub – Mistress Fox and teaseme discuss the FemDomme/malesub lifestyle in articles and essays.
• Mistress Wife – Essays about how to control and discipline your man.
• Mrs Birch’s Discipline School – Some free pictures, history, biography, and information, as well as a paid membership option.
• The Other World Kingdom – A private state, the structure of which combines dominant women with submissive men.
• Queen Zar’s Sanctuary – A place for BBW Dommes to meet serious sub male admirers via chat, discussion and photos.
• Real Women Don’t Do Housework – Lady Misato’s advice pages – learn about female domination and men as devoted slaves. Includes discussion forums.
• The Steel Door – Theme site featuring personal ads, poems, writings, and a confessional.
• Tease Me’s World – Teasing and denial, with original femdom fiction and links.
• Temple Isis – Domain of the Black Domina – Articles and information, free personals, Domme registry, photo gallery.
• Thor’s Place – Interviews, message boards, galleries, commentary, and a prodom directory.
• The Vixen-Lady Cafe – Message boards and a link directory for those interested in professional domination.
• Whap! Magazine – A preview of print publication, subscription information, femdom links, and lively message board.
• You Do Voodoo – Provides a variety of BDSM related information. Includes mission, vision and contact information, a shopping guide, news and related links.

Maledom:

• The Online Training Academy – Fee-based BDSM training for dominant men and submissive women.
• Sneaky and Nice – A collection of essays and stories about “Domestic Discipline”, a 24/7 lifestyle where the man is master of the household and of his woman.

As in the case of many diseases, prevention is always better than cure and it is necessary to understand the basic facts about Sexually Transmitted Diseases in order to avoid getting infected. You should know how these diseases are spread, the common symptoms and the treatment procedures. The above information about Sexually Transmitted Diseases is available in a series of fact sheets prepared by the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID), which is a part of the National Institutes of Health. In order to prevent Sexually Transmitted Diseases and to find out better diagnosis methods and more effective treatment techniques, research investigators supported by NIAID are working tirelessly.

There are five key points about Sexually Transmitted Diseases which should be understood thoroughly:

• Sexually Transmitted Diseases are more common among young people who are less than 25 years of age. STDs are equally prevalent among men and women of all backgrounds and economic levels.
• The rise in cases of Sexually Transmitted Diseases in the past few decades is due to the fact that sexual activities are starting earlier in young people and they are delaying marriage. Moreover, divorce is also becoming more common leading to people having multiple sex partners during their lives which makes them more prone to the risk of developing STDs.
• Sexually Transmitted Diseases do not exhibit their symptoms in most cases, particularly in women. Even if some symptoms do appear, they can be mistaken to be those of other diseases. However, a person infected with STD and not exhibiting any symptoms can transmit this disease to a sexual partner. It is, therefore, recommended that people with multiple sex partners should get periodic testing or screening done.
• Women are at greater risk of getting more severe and more frequent health problems caused by STDs because of the high rate of occurrence of asymptomatic infection. Thus women fail to seek treatment until serious problems affect them.
• STDs can be treated with success if they are diagnosed and treated early. However, some infections are getting impervious to the actions of the drugs and new types of antibiotics are needed. Moreover, you stand a greater chance of getting infected with the AIDS virus if you suffer from any STD.

Treatment Tips
ALL the medicines given to you should be taken fully even though you might feel better during the course of the medication. Since you would not like to infect your sexual partner as you could get back the disease, you should find out from your health care provider (doctor or nurse) about when you can start your sexual activities safely. Medicines and prescriptions should never be shared or split with someone else. If you are asked to have more tests, you should go back to the clinic for the same. You must disclose to all your sexual partners that you have been infected with an STD and that they should get themselves tested.

Knowledge is certainly power in the case of Sexually Transmitted Diseases as you minimize the risk of getting these diseases and spreading them around only through a thorough understanding of its implications. Moreover, honesty and openness is also very important in curbing and dealing with Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Kissing can be described as the ultimate physically romantic intimacy between two people. There’s no right and wrong in how you should kiss. Each person has a different style of kissing, based on their own individual preferences. Certain folks may become aghast at the thought of French kissing, mainly because it involves the use of the tongue. For others kissing isn’t kissing unless one uses their tongue. The best solution is to experiment with kissing somebody a couple of times. That way it will be easy for you to identify your preferences as well as that of your partner to become familiar with each other’s kisses.

Learn How To French Kiss:

Relax – Both the body and the lips need to be at ease so that it doesn’t resemble kissing a dead fish for the partner. A French kiss is about just two things, lips and tongue and nothing more.

Open Lips – Keep lips slightly parted without opening wide as one does for a dentist. The parting of the lips should be slight similar to regular breathing through the mouth.

Positioning – Faces must not be dead on to each other as it would lead to noses coming in the way. Tilt your head ever so slightly to ensure that the nose will not cause an obstruction. With one head tilted to one side and the other head to the opposite side, mouths won’t be dead on. Instead they meet at the corner of each other’s mouths similar to the depiction.

Observing the picture closer will make it apparent that the noses will touch the partner’s cheek. The lips have of course already touched. When touching the partner’s lips, stretch your tongue out a little and by instinct your mouths will open to the same extent as the couple in the picture.

Tongue –It’s upto you to practice by yourself if you choose to. Your mouth should open only to allow a part of the tongue to stick out, say about an inch or two. Your tongue should stick out no further than that during a kiss. Then tongues enter each other’s mouths and touch. Curl the tip of your tongue around the tip of your partner’s.

In case your partner does something different, which is likely due to the different types of tongue movements preferred by different people, it’s best to do the same. The partner may flick their tongue over yours and you can reciprocate. Some may explore the inside of the mouth with the tongue and the partner can do the same. Another suggestion is to lightly touch the exploring tongue with your own. What you need to avoid is to have your tongue do nothing.

Where head movements are concerned, it is entirely a matter of what you prefer. Some may move their head slowly in a circular fashion or in the shape of an eight. Some may not do so. At times only one head may move around while the partner’s head remains still. It is all a question of preferences and likings. Explore and experiment with a number of variations of tongue movements. One possibility is to try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips, at a very slow and gradual pace with only the tip of your tongue making any movement.

The origin of sexual harassment lies in the United States Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Sexual harassment includes unwelcome sexual advancers, requests for sexual favors and other sexually related acts or statements when refusal or obligation will directly affect the person’s employment, affects performance or leads to a hostile work environment.

The recent years have seen a sharp increase in sexual harassment claims, with many organizations and individuals finding it overused. The fear is of large bills based on false claims, apart from the goriness of the claims. Sexual harassment allegations frequently force employer to question the credibility of two equally valuable employees. Judgments of this nature create discomfort for the employers. Then considerable time of the employees and huge legal fees are taken up by court proceedings. More than anything else, litigation means a loser and winner, causing permanent damage to professional relationships of all involved.

What Can You Do If You Are Harassed?
There is no definite procedure to tackle sexual harassment. Situations vary and it is up to you to analyze the problem and initiate action. While you can get advice and support from friends, affirmative action officers, human resource professionals and women’s group, it is eventually your decision. The one certainty is that choosing to ignore the problem will not be the end of it.

Do Not Blame Yourself For The Harassment
It isn’t you who is to blame but the harasser. Self-blame leads to depression, making matters even worse. There are certain strategies that women often find effective.

• Say no to sexual harassment with a direct approach.
• Write to the harasser describing the incident and the way you felt about it. Make it clear that it should stop. Send the letter by certified mail, keeping a copy.
• Maintain record of all developments with daters, times, places, names of those involved and witnesses and all verbal exchanges.
• Share your problem and don’t keep it bottled up inside. Staying silent won’t stop it. It’s very likely that you are not the only victim of the harasser. Confiding in others can help in finding support and helping others avoid falling victim.
• Find out who the authority in your organization is, for dealing with sexual harassment and whether you can confide in him. Most organizations have sexual harassment policies, procedures and officials or counselors for handling them. Find out what your organization provides for in these situations. Each organization is responsible for the necessary help, advice and support and all interaction can strengthen possible legal action if necessary.

If you belong to a union, consult your representative as unions are effective in solving sexual harassment problems at the workplace. In case of grave psychological distress, it may help top consult a psychologist or mental health professional who is aware of the seriousness of sexual harassment problems. Sexual harassment is definitely a crime that you need to keep your organization free of.

But does size really matter?

When it comes to penises, many cultures have considered bigger to be better.

But studies show that there are relatively few nerve endings in the far reaches of the vagina so bigger is NOT necessarily better for some women …that is in terms of their partner’s penis size.

Most research finds that the average range of penis size falls between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

Obsession with the penis size seems to emanate from male vanity rather than the pleasure it will give a woman. It appears that a guy’s fear is not that a woman will not enjoy sex because his penis is too small. Actually it’s the fear of being exposed as a small dicked man that is more terrifying.

Unsurprisingly, this obsession about penis sizes has spawned an industry solely devoted to penis enlargement. There is a whole gamut of penis enlargement methods and procedures you can choose from.

One such is the traction method exemplified by the FastSize-Extender. The FastSize-Extender is a comfortable and easy-to-use device designed to aid in penile length and girth enhancement. It uses traction to assist the human body’s natural ability to change and develop under physical influence. By exposing to a constant, permanent stretch, the cells in the chambers begin to divide and multiply, thus increasing the tissue mass. This process allows the penis to hold more blood than it could before.

As a result, enlargement can be noticed in both length and width (girth) of the penis in as little as 8 weeks, provided that you maintain a strict 12 hour daily program. It is not necessary to wear the FastSize-Extender for a long uninterrupted time to obtain results. It’s really up to you how much free time and dedication you want to put into your regimen.

You can also take a break for a period of time without diminishing the final result. Refraining from using the FastSize-Extender does not result in “losing” part of the enlargement already gained.

But you should always remember that sexual satisfaction is due to a number of things, and size is only one aspect.