French Kiss

January 29th 2010

Kissing can be described as the ultimate physically romantic intimacy between two people. There’s no right and wrong in how you should kiss. Each person has a different style of kissing, based on their own individual preferences. Certain folks may become aghast at the thought of French kissing, mainly because it involves the use of the tongue. For others kissing isn’t kissing unless one uses their tongue. The best solution is to experiment with kissing somebody a couple of times. That way it will be easy for you to identify your preferences as well as that of your partner to become familiar with each other’s kisses.

Kissing can be described as the ultimate physically romantic intimacy between two people. There’s no right and wrong in how you should kiss. Each person has a different style of kissing, based on their own individual preferences. Certain folks may become aghast at the thought of French kissing, mainly because it involves the use of the tongue. For others kissing isn’t kissing unless one uses their tongue. The best solution is to experiment with kissing somebody a couple of times. That way it will be easy for you to identify your preferences as well as that of your partner to become familiar with each other’s kisses.

Learn How To French Kiss:

Relax – Both the body and the lips need to be at ease so that it doesn’t resemble kissing a dead fish for the partner. A French kiss is about just two things, lips and tongue and nothing more.

Open Lips – Keep lips slightly parted without opening wide as one does for a dentist. The parting of the lips should be slight similar to regular breathing through the mouth.

Positioning – Faces must not be dead on to each other as it would lead to noses coming in the way. Tilt your head ever so slightly to ensure that the nose will not cause an obstruction. With one head tilted to one side and the other head to the opposite side, mouths won’t be dead on. Instead they meet at the corner of each other’s mouths similar to the depiction.

Observing the picture closer will make it apparent that the noses will touch the partner’s cheek. The lips have of course already touched. When touching the partner’s lips, stretch your tongue out a little and by instinct your mouths will open to the same extent as the couple in the picture.

Tongue –It’s upto you to practice by yourself if you choose to. Your mouth should open only to allow a part of the tongue to stick out, say about an inch or two. Your tongue should stick out no further than that during a kiss. Then tongues enter each other’s mouths and touch. Curl the tip of your tongue around the tip of your partner’s.

In case your partner does something different, which is likely due to the different types of tongue movements preferred by different people, it’s best to do the same. The partner may flick their tongue over yours and you can reciprocate. Some may explore the inside of the mouth with the tongue and the partner can do the same. Another suggestion is to lightly touch the exploring tongue with your own. What you need to avoid is to have your tongue do nothing.

Where head movements are concerned, it is entirely a matter of what you prefer. Some may move their head slowly in a circular fashion or in the shape of an eight. Some may not do so. At times only one head may move around while the partner’s head remains still. It is all a question of preferences and likings. Explore and experiment with a number of variations of tongue movements. One possibility is to try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips, at a very slow and gradual pace with only the tip of your tongue making any movement.

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